Our private Tantra workshop for couples
More intimacy and sensuality in your relationship
Discover the wellness of Tantra in our 3hr private Tantra workshop for couples. You will be lovingly guided by our experienced all-female team of Tantra guides.
Our private Tantra workshops can be booked at various locations in the Netherlands; also in Amsterdam and Utrecht. They take place in a calm, relaxed and professional setting.
Yes, it will be adventurous and new, but also very safe. We will never try to persuade you to do anything that you don’t want to. And your clothes will stay on;-)
We’ll teach you simple techniques for more intimacy and depth in your relationship. And we’ll show you how you can use them at home, to enrich your communication, connection and lovemaking.
Wether you’ve just met – or are together for 40 years already; you’ll discover there is much more to your relationship (and life itself!).

For whom are these private Tantra workshops?
Love is love. We receive couples of any combination of genders and of all ages. And wether you’ve been together for two months or for twenty years: Tantra has something to offer for all relationships.
Many couples who come to us, have a busy life in which they combine a demanding career with the care of their family. They often experience there is too little room for intimacy.
How can you really meet each other in the hectic pace of everyday life? Even if you have only 5 minutes? We’ll show you how.
And more importantly: this enhancing and deepening the intimacy with your partner is not going to become the next item on your to-do list. Because it should be time for YOU. Time for you to relax and enjoy. To surrender to the moment… This is what we practice and teach.
No previous experience necessary
In fact, you mainly need your curiosity. It’s truly no problem if you have no experience with Tantra or any other spiritual path. The program is designed in such a way that it is doable for people without experience – and challenging for people with.
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Our team of Tantra guides
Practical information:
Locations: our private Tantra workshops for couples are available in different parts of the Netherlands (Amsterdam, Haarlem, The Hague, Utrecht, Almere, Leeuwarden & Zutphen)
We welcome you in our stylish, professional spaces that are fully equipped for comfort during your private Tantra workshop.
Immediately after your booking you will receive our address and other practical information + your invoice. Please check your spambox if you haven’t received it. If you have any questions, please contact us.
Price: click on the session in our online agenda below, and you will immediately see the costs.
Dates: please check our availability in our online calendar. Please do book ahead to avoid disappointment. You can always send us an email if you can’t find an option matching your agenda (first name trainer) @ avondvolaandacht.nl
Time: although we do sometimes offer private sessions in the evening, actually it’s often more pleasant to plan a session during daylight. We will do a lot of relaxing exercises and you stay awake more easily during the day 😉
Conditions: please read our cancellation conditions here.
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What participants say
'We had no idea what we were getting into, and it was great. So much gentleness, compassion and sincere attention.
Our energy is flowing again and at the same time it gives a lot of peace.'
'Of course I expected to learn something new,
but this exceeded all my expectations.
It helped me to connect many dots in my life.'
'To use a cliche metaphor:
it felt like a warm bath.'
'Thank God you weren't a spiritual hippie type.
You really managed to reach my husband because of that.'
'Our communication is more transparent.
We dare to say more to each other.'
'Dear Martine,
What a beautiful afternoon we had with you!
You offered us the tools for a deeper connection, which we hoped to find.
It was accessible, relaxed, safe and above all: healing.'
'It is very special to be so tuned into your body and your feelings together.
What depth and information that gave us.'
'As I said, I was 'persuaded',
but I don't regret that at all!'
'This private Tantra session is a very nice
and accessible way
to get acquainted with Tantra.”
‘It started off nicely with the preparatory emails we received.
Because of this alone there was more attention and contemplation:
about our desires for our relationship and for ourselves.'
'At one point I felt together as one:
a deep feeling.'
'The afternoon with Marije was wonderful
and has shown us that there are many more layers to discover in our intimate relationship.'
'I am very happy that I gave myself this deepening,
connecting experience.'
'I came closer to my own feelings
and experienced more connection with my partner.'
'For us it was a moment of intense intimacy without any frills.
A good counterpart to the automatic pilot that usually navigates our life.'
'You have guided us nicely in our first step on this road:
warm, knowledgeable and firm.'
'So special to experience the difference between entering and leaving.
That real contact, the love and energy that flows... Delightful!'
'We now make a much more conscious choice about what we're going to do with the time we spend together.'
'Our beautiful session has brought Anna and me a lot. What I've learned, I even use it in my work, in the relationship with colleagues and friends... and their reactions are always beautiful.
You don't want to know how many times I've forwarded your podcast.'Listen to our podcast (150k+ downloads):
Usually the Avond vol Aandacht Podcast ‘about the wellness of Tantra in your relationship’ is in Dutch. Especially for you, I’ve recorded three of our most populair episodes in English – so you can get to know us a bit better;-)
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Experience the wellness of Tantra, directly at home
Take your beloved on a sweet, intimate adventure:
Download our free Tantric partner exercise ‘Fuel for your Relationship’ (30 mins.)
Frequently asked questions about our private Tantra sessions:
What a wonderful idea!
We have enough stuff already. But intimacy? You never can get enough of that. So, our private Tantra sessions for couples are very often gifted as a present.
It usually works out very well – even with partners who are not particularly interested in spirituality. Fortunately, Tantra is very down to earth. You don’t need to have any previous experience in meditation or yoga. You also don’t need to believe in anything special.
Also good to know: we will never try to persuade you to do something you don’t really want to do yourself. Tantra is about staying close to yourself, and not forcing yourself. We already do that enough in life!
Our private Tantra workshops can be booked in different parts of the Netherlands; in Amsterdam and Utrecht, but also in the North (Leeuwarden) and in the East (Eefde/Zutphen) which is not far to the German border.
Please remember to book ahead, as we are usually booked a few weeks in advance.
If in doubt, please contact us.
You can partake in our workshops in whatever way suits you and your body. An injury is not a problem.
We have comfortable (meditation) chairs and cushions to make it easy for your body to relax. You may also want to lie down for a while; that’s all totally okay with us. Tantra is about relaxing, and we are happy to support you to listen carefully to your body.
Unfortunately not all locations are wheelchair accessible. If you are dependent on it, please contact us up front about the possibilities. (info @ avondvolaandacht.nl)
Well, in a longer love relationship there will undoubtedly be difficult periods. Then it’s easy to think that something is going wrong. Or that you have the wrong partner.
But that is very much the question. Distance easily creates incomprehension and misunderstandings. Before you know it you believe your projections on your partner, and you make him / her / them the source of your unhappiness.
Relating is one of the most complicated things on earth. If you managed to stay together trough a difficult period, this usually means that there is a lot of love between you.
We promise that you’ll find each other again in our private Tantra workshop. And we are really there for you, also if it’s not always easy.
Our Tantra guides all have advanced therapeutic skills and experience. We will guide you firmly and lovingly towards more connection and awareness.
In this workshop, you’ll see each other again with fresh eyes.
Often this opens a space in which love can flow more fully again.