Our private Tantra workshop for couples
More intimacy in your relationship
Discover what Tantra can bring to your relationship in our three-hour private Tantra workshop for couples. You’ll be lovingly guided by one of our experienced, all-female team of Tantra guides.
Our private workshops take place at various locations across the Netherlands, including Amsterdam and Utrecht, always in a calm, relaxed and professional setting.
Yes, it will be new and adventurous, but also very safe. We’ll never ask you to do anything you don’t want to. And your clothes stay on. 😉
We’ll teach you simple techniques for more intimacy and depth in your relationship. We’ll also show you how to use them at home to enrich your communication, connection and lovemaking.
Whether you’ve just met or have been together for 40 years, you’ll discover there’s so much more to your relationship, and to life itself!

For whom are these private Tantra workshops?
Love is love. We welcome couples of all genders and all ages. Tantra has something to offer for every relationship.
Many of the couples who come to us, lead busy lives – combining demanding careers with caring for a family. They often feel there’s too little room for intimacy.
How can you truly meet each other in the rush of everyday life, even when you only have five minutes?
We’ll show you how.
And just as importantly: deepening your intimacy shouldn’t become yet another item on your to-do list. This is time for the two of you.
Time to relax, to enjoy, to surrender to the moment. That’s what we practise and teach.
No previous experience needed
All you really need is curiosity. It’s absolutely fine if you have no experience with Tantra or any other spiritual path. The programme is designed to be accessible for beginners, and still enriching for those with experience.
Already done a private Tantra workshop with us? Discover our second workshop: Tantric Touch.
Our team of Tantra guides
Practical information:
Locations: our private Tantra workshops for couples are available in different parts of the Netherlands (Amsterdam, Haarlem, the Hague, Utrecht, Schoorl-Bergen, Leeuwarden & Zutphen)
We welcome you in our stylish, professional spaces that are fully equipped for comfort during your private Tantra workshop.
Immediately after your booking you will receive our address and other practical information + your invoice. Please check your spambox if you haven’t received it. If you have any questions, please contact us.
Price: click on the session in our online agenda below, and you will immediately see the costs.
Dates: please check our availability in our online calendar. Please do book ahead to avoid disappointment. You can always send us an email if you can’t find an option matching your agenda (first name trainer) @ avondvolaandacht.nl
Time: although we do sometimes offer private sessions in the evening, actually it’s often more pleasant to plan a session during daylight. We will do a lot of relaxing exercises and you stay awake more easily during the day 😉
Conditions: please read our cancellation conditions here.
Book your private Tantra workshop:

What participants say
'We had no idea what we were getting into, and it was great. So much gentleness, compassion and sincere attention.
Our energy is flowing again and at the same time it gives a lot of peace.'
'Of course I expected to learn something new,
but this exceeded all my expectations.
It helped me to connect many dots in my life.'
'To use a cliche metaphor:
it felt like a warm bath.'
'Thank God you weren't a spiritual hippie type.
You really managed to reach my husband because of that.'
'Our communication is more transparent.
We dare to say more to each other.'
'Dear Martine,
What a beautiful afternoon we had with you!
You offered us the tools for a deeper connection, which we hoped to find.
It was accessible, relaxed, safe and above all: healing.'
'It is very special to be so tuned into your body and your feelings together.
What depth and information that gave us.'
'As I said, I was 'persuaded',
but I don't regret that at all!'
'This private Tantra session is a very nice
and accessible way
to get acquainted with Tantra.”
‘It started off nicely with the preparatory emails we received.
Because of this alone there was more attention and contemplation:
about our desires for our relationship and for ourselves.'
'At one point I felt together as one:
a deep feeling.'
'The afternoon with Marije was wonderful
and has shown us that there are many more layers to discover in our intimate relationship.'
'I am very happy that I gave myself this deepening,
connecting experience.'
'I came closer to my own feelings
and experienced more connection with my partner.'
'For us it was a moment of intense intimacy without any frills.
A good counterpart to the automatic pilot that usually navigates our life.'
'You have guided us nicely in our first step on this road:
warm, knowledgeable and firm.'
'So special to experience the difference between entering and leaving.
That real contact, the love and energy that flows... Delightful!'
'We now make a much more conscious choice about what we're going to do with the time we spend together.'
'Our beautiful session has brought Anna and me a lot. What I've learned, I even use it in my work, in the relationship with colleagues and friends... and their reactions are always beautiful.
You don't want to know how many times I've forwarded your podcast.'Listen to our podcast (200k+ downloads):
Usually the Avond vol Aandacht Podcast ‘about Tantra in your relationship’ is in Dutch. But since we receive many non-Dutch speaking couples, I’ve recorded three of our most populair episodes in English. This way can get to know us a bit better.
If this episode is inspiring to you, please don’t forget to give us a 5* rating on Spotify or Apple Podcasts to spread the word. Thank you so much!
Get a taste of what Tantra can bring you, at home
Take your beloved on a sweet, intimate adventure:
Download our free Tantric partner exercise ‘Fuel for your Relationship’ (30 mins.)
Frequently asked questions about our private Tantra sessions:
What a wonderful idea!
We all have enough stuff already. But intimacy? You can never get enough of that. That’s why our private Tantra workshops for couples are very often given as a gift.
It usually works out beautifully, even with partners who aren’t particularly into spirituality. Tantra is actually very down to earth. You don’t need any experience with meditation or yoga, and you don’t need to believe in anything special.
Also good to know: we’ll never ask you to do anything you don’t want to. Tantra is about staying close to yourself, not forcing yourself. We already do enough of that in life!
Our private workshops can be booked in various parts of the Netherlands: in Amsterdam, Haarlem, Utrecht and The Hague, but also in the north (Leeuwarden) and the east (Zutphen, not far from the German border).
Please book ahead, as we’re usually booked up a few weeks in advance.
Keeping it a secret?
During booking, we’ll ask for both your email address and your partner’s. Only you will receive the confirmation email. After the workshop, your partner will also receive our follow-up emails, with reminders to help you both keep the practice alive.
That said, we recommend not keeping it a secret until you’re standing at our door. Give your partner some time to get used to the idea, and reassure them: no nudity, and no pushing boundaries.
If you have any doubts, feel free to contact us.
You can partake in our workshops in whatever way suits you and your body. An injury is not a problem.
We have comfortable (meditation) chairs and cushions to make it easy for your body to relax. You may also want to lie down for a while; that’s all totally okay with us. Tantra is about relaxing, and we are happy to support you to listen carefully to your body.
Unfortunately not all locations are wheelchair accessible. If you are dependent on it, please contact us up front about the possibilities. (info @ avondvolaandacht.nl)
Well, in a longer love relationship there will undoubtedly be difficult periods. Then it’s easy to think that something is going wrong. Or that you have the wrong partner.
But that is very much the question. Distance easily creates incomprehension and misunderstandings. Before you know it you believe your projections on your partner, and you make him / her / them the source of your unhappiness.
Relating is one of the most complicated things on earth. If you managed to stay together trough a difficult period, this usually means that there is a lot of love between you.
We promise that you’ll find each other again in our private Tantra workshop. And we are really there for you, also if it’s not always easy.
Our Tantra guides all have advanced therapeutic skills and experience. We will guide you firmly and lovingly towards more connection and awareness.
In this workshop, you’ll see each other again with fresh eyes.
Often this opens a space in which love can flow more fully again.