Honeymoon in Amsterdam?
3 reasons why you should book a private Tantra guide
There is so much you haven’t learned yet about relating and sexuality. Really. I think it’s kind of normal in our society to grow up in a relational dessert.
If you have seen your parents kissing, or being intimate in any other way: I think you’re lucky (as long as that did not scare you;-)
Most of what we learn in life, we learn by modelling. So, usually, wether we like it or not, we tend to do what we’ve seen our parents do. And sex and intimacy is something most grown ups will hide. So how can you really learn something about it?
The only place where we can actually see people have sex, is in porn. But that’s only one side of sex. Often a quite unequal, narrow side of sex. A kind of sexuality that usually does not survive long within a longer relationship, as it puts a lot of pressure on one or both partners.
So, why not start your marriage with some very valuable and practical skills? In 3 hours, we’ll teach you how to relax into intimacy. Because really: nobody needs to work hard for intimacy and sexual flow.
1. A safe place to learn Tantra
At Avond vol Aandacht (meaning ‘Evening full of Attention’) we have developed a sophisticated form of Tantra, in which we merge ancient Tantric practices with modern day therapeutic and coaching skills and knowledge.
All of our all-female team of Tantra guides, have a solid background not only in Tantra (practicing 7+ years minimum) but also in therapy, coaching or psychology.
But yes: It’s very normal to experience a little nervousness as you try something new. Growth is always taking place outside of your comfort zone.
We think that you also need to feel safe in order to be able to grow. So, in our private Tantra workshops for couples, your clothes stay on, we are not asking you to make love on the spot, and we will never put any pressure on you.
But we do teach you wonderfully easy and powerful techniques that you can use at home as well – within or without a sexual context.
2. A perfect time to deepen your relationship
It’s my experience that if my relationship is flourishing, all the world is in bloom. Everything feels just so much kinder and warmer to me.
The number 1 regret that people on their deathbed say they have: ‘I wish I spent more time with my loved ones’.
And spending time is one thing. But are you thoroughly enjoying it?
I mean enjoying not in the sense that you should have fun all the time – but in the sense you feel like you really touch each other on a deep level.
Do you feel truly seen by your beloved?
Holidays are a perfect time for deepening your relationship. Without the usual stresses of life, there is usually more openness to allow for new experiences.
Try to book your private Tantra session at the beginning of your holiday, so you still have a couple of days to practice what you’ve learned – and enjoy the intimacy between you.
3. Amsterdam is the perfect place for adventure
I love traveling. I think the most important reason why I love it so much, is that outside of my normal surroundings, I kind of become someone new: curious, open to new experiences…Really here: in this moment.
Actually this is the perfect attitude for exploring Tantra. Just like you would explore Amsterdam and it’s little alleys, it’s beautiful canals and it’s gorgeous parks, you could explore your inner world as well.
Usually when we grow up, we unlearn to be curious and to experiment. We shut down to new possibilities. We learn quickly that we need to do things ‘right’ (whatever that is).
In Tantra, you get into this ‘beginners’ mind’ again. You’ll learn to look at yourself and the world like a child again: open, full of wonder and curiosity.
And doesn’t adventurous Amsterdam – the center of Tantra in the world today – provide a wonderful backdrop for that?
Experience Tantra together
Grow your relationship, while having a lot of fun! Allow one of our experienced Tantra guides to take you on a safe and connecting adventure.
