This is Linda, a private Tantra trainer for couples in The Hague
For me, Tantra is about truly allowing myself to be who I am.
With everything I feel. Even when that feels intense, awkward, or “too much.” Tantra taught me that I don’t have to hide anything – not from myself, and not from another. When I give words to what is alive in me, space is created. For connection. For authenticity.
My own journey started in a very different place. In insecurity. Unprocessed medical and sexual trauma. Not knowing what I wanted. Pleasing and adapting to what I thought was expected of me. Especially in sexuality, I often felt disconnected from myself. As if I was watching rather than truly participating. Speaking openly about this felt difficult.
Until something shifted. I felt: I want this to be different.
I began exploring bodywork, awareness, and tantra, and slowly returned to my body. I learned to recognize my desires and boundaries. I started to feel more. And it was precisely in intimate moments that I saw where I was not yet free. That’s where the healing began.
Then I met Thijs, my great love. One week after our first date, we – completely by coincidence – both joined the same introductory week at ‘Centrum for Tantra’. From that moment on, tantra became a foundation of our relationship. Joyful and deeply connecting and at times raw and intense.
We explore everything together. From connection. With radical honesty. And by each taking full responsibility for our own triggers.
Tantra has also played an essential, deepening role in our sexual relationship: fiery and fulfilling, often searching as well, but always real. Not only a place of pleasure, but also one of shared exploration and healing.
And that is incredibly valuable.
Tantra & Sex
As a body-oriented therapist specialising in intimacy and the pelvic area, I believe in the wisdom of the body. Your system wants to restore itself to safety and connection and it knows how. Whatever still feels tense or blocked will surface when you truly allow closeness. Not to hold you back, but to set you free. Your resistance shows you the way.
That is why I offer these beautiful evenings for Avond Vol Aandacht.
Because real connection begins with yourself. When you soften towards yourself. When you learn to feel what you need. When you learn to listen to your “yes” and your “no.” When clarity grows. When you allow yourself to be seen – especially in the parts you would rather hide – and meet each other there.
This is what you may wake me up for.
A moment of authenticity. A touch where nothing is required, and everything is welcome. That one moment when someone speaks what has never been shared before. That’s where it happens for me. That’s where life begins. Real life. Real connection. Real pleasure. And that is what I wish for everyone.
Book your private Tantra workshop with Linda in The Hague
Book your private session with Linda easily via her online agenda, below.
If these dates below do not match your agenda, please send an email to: linda @ avondvolaandacht.nl
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